(Related to what we were talking about yesterday) DiceySpikes Always remember, nor social media nor news these days represent the majority of people, ignore the bullshit https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/14362877/women-affair-sexier-look-younger/
All women should have an affair — it made me feel sexier AND look younger
IF you think having an affair is an absolute no-go for you, think again – you are massively missing out. Nothing beats the buzz of sneaking around behind a partner’s back or the rush of adrenaline …
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a DiceySpikes the comments below news stuff really isn't representative either tbh. fact is that all that whore shit is on an all time high and will only increase
hexagons0793
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julian398a DiceySpikes I sort of bad for the like 3 to 4 girls in the instance while we were all shiting on women. Is not good to generalize.
julian398a
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DarkMahesvara DiceySpikes well then it's not worth taking any of it at face value, rather to look into the real world, is not perfect, but at least to me is way better than any of this
julian398a
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hexagonalsheep93 DiceySpikes exactly
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a DiceySpikes if you look at the real world (data) it's even worse tbh. 80-20 rule for example
DarkMahesvara julian398a DiceySpikes I really don't want to buy an intermodal shipping container, bury it, and live in it. Though Fort Cunny had a nice ring to it. Imagine going Waco over a Henreader connection.
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DarkMahesvara DiceySpikes wouldn't that be the opposite? 20 of the crazy bitch whores causes the majority of problems the other 80 get the shit on? most things tend to go that way 20 cause 80 of the problems, and that is the only thing you see.
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a DiceySpikes i mean woman finding only 20% of man desirable
DarkMahesvara DiceySpikes julian398a *COLLECTION
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a DiceySpikes https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/
OkCupid Checks Out The Dynamics Of Attraction And Your Love Inbox | TechCrunch
Every few weeks Internet dating site OkCupid uses the power of anonymized data to share a few truths about the online dating scene and human nature in general. To be sure, these reports are often highly controversial and aren't going to be showing up in scientific literature any time soon, but they're generally interesting (and often amusing) reads. The latest report to come out addresses 'Your Looks And Your Inbox', charting the number of messages users receive in relation to how attractive other members rate them. Some of the conclusions aren't surprising. The "most attractive" women receive five times as many messages as the average female does, with 2/3 of all male messages going to the top 1/3 of women. And women tend to favor the most attractive men, though the ratio is less extreme. But there are a few interesting phenomena.
julian398a
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DarkMahesvara 1. Real life as in "Dating apps/sites data" where other studies have proved are awful ways to try to get a partner and almost always useless, and most ppl come for their next fuck buddy, of course they ain't gonna contact someone that doesn't look like a pornstar 2. If it is really that awful let's just shit on every woman here, if the statistics from a page for people who only care about sex says so I think we have a couple of girls to shit on, instead of actually talking to everyone like a normal human being, I imagine that's gonna solve it all. If we don't ever give it a chance then we are just making sure there is no way out and only make things worse, maybe I'm just delusional so who the fuck cares
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a 1. yes and no. Even if women outside of Dating sites have "more realistic" standards doesn't change the fact that they will not find there partner attractive. 2. i don't plan or care about "shiting on every woman".
BREAD123
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julian398a DarkMahesvara if there's one thing these stats tell you, it's that it you're looking for a woman to date (or even a man tbh) then don't consider dating who is using a dating app. A few female friends/acquaintances I have use dating apps but as I see it, they're just lonely and want to offer their bodies as a shortcut to friendship after losing their older friends by being toxic.
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a also why do only woman use the site as there "next fuck buddy" but not men? i would assume it's the opposite.
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BREAD123 julian398a DarkMahesvara Well there in lies the problem if they stopped being toxic cunts they could actually get some real friends.
BREAD123
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Gronsak I told a bitch that if she wanted attention we (our mutual friends group) were there for her, and if she really felt lonely she could talk to me over chat or in person. She got angry because I somehow implied she was a whore and hasn't talked to me since (it's been like three weeks now) :miku_anger:
julian398a
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DarkMahesvara but that's is literally it, that's the exact point of making a difference of the standard show there and what is really out there, what they expect from someone attractive in that site compared to someone they actually meet. why not, be the change you want to make, or I would imagine that's the only things will be better idk then I guess just encourage everyone who is looking for a partner to end it, some solution but doing nothing seems kinda wasteful
julian398a
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BREAD123 DarkMahesvara yeah studies have come out in how often ppl actually end up being together after dating in these apps (not often), and then how much those relationships last (not long if at all) the internet has fucked over evryone
julian398a
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DarkMahesvara but they do, they might think that the majority of women, are pretty but as it shows the messages always go to the hottest ones even if the rest might be good looking to them.
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a being with someone that doesn't find you attractive and can get someone better than you at any time. wonder what could go wrong :yoko_think:
Grönsak
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BREAD123 That's what you get for being a nice guy sadly.
BREAD123
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julian398a ha at least where I live, it's only most of the upper middle class that's been westernised. The middle(?) middle class is full of normal people. It's just sad for me because I'm a westernised upper middle class so it's hard for me to get along with them :(
BREAD123
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Gronsak I'm not even interested in her (uses dating apps so immediately NG) I just wanted to be a good friend :gura_pain:
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a most messages will always go to the most attractive. that is not surprising and obviously not exclusiv to one gender. the point is women rate men way lower than men do women.
BREAD123
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DarkMahesvara if you're talking about the OKCupid stats, it says that women are less likely to compromise and settle for a less attractive man. Men don't mind as much.
julian398a
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DarkMahesvara again, not that doesn't find you attractive but doesn't think you are the prettiest one out there, could say the same thing about women, majority don't fall on that 1% But I guess I'm just being a bitch at this point whatever just kill all women there or something if it's really that bad then why not just do it, I don't see the problem fuck trying to be hopeful. there you win
DarkMahesvara
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BREAD123 they "don't mind as much" the have a completely different scale for rating physical attractiveness.
julian398a
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BREAD123 hey could be worse, there are literally no girls where I live and I studied at a male only school, imagine that one
julian398a
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DarkMahesvara true, well nothing to do then, I'll jump down a pit or something, nothing can be done
[email protected] I know, I haven't had any romance related incidents in a year :dead_inside:
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a "not that doesn't find you attractive but doesn't think you are the prettiest one out there, could say the same thing about women, majority don't fall on that 1%" no, read the data. it's not about "not being the most prettiest" but rating them "below average"! i don't want or plan to hurt any women. just tired about upholding the illusion for self satisfaction > "it's not that bad bro"
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a i don't know (you). i can just talk for myself. if you look good or don't want to give up then that's on you.
hexagons0793
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DarkMahesvara julian398a to be fair the people that use dating apps to find a partner both men and women are a minority. Most people that ive seen use it only to find a sex partner
julian398a
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DarkMahesvara nigga I'm a midget, if shit is as bad as you say I should, simple as. we should encourage it even, a few dead but a better world I'd say who the fuck cares
DarkMahesvara
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hexagonalsheep93 julian398a depends on the age group. https://www.statista.com/statistics/310344/us-online-dating-app-site-usage-age/ "only to find a sex partner" again even if that where the case why do only women and not men too rate 80% of the other gender as "below average". imo this only shows the difference of rating appearance even outside of dating apps.
U.S. dating website or app usage by age group 2020 | Statista
This statistic presents the percentage of adult internet users in the United States who have used a dating website or app as of January 2019, by age group.
DarkMahesvara
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julian398a you can cope or rope however you want. just don't give others false hope.
julian398a
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DarkMahesvara hexagonalsheep93 I'm latino not born US, we are some of the smallest ppl in the world, also, just as you say, fuck what group I'm in if it is like that there is no hope for me, I don't want to argue, whatever dude you are right, I don't care anymore I gave up hope just go along
hexagons0793
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DarkMahesvara julian398a I mean you have to ask the men that where asked that for me I can tell you that I find less than 10% of the women I see as attractive I really dont care after all im not interested in any sort of relation
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@julian398a@varishangout.net @DiceySpikes@varishangout.net the barrier between the internet and the real world is gradually breaking down though
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DarkMahesvara julian398a It rhymes you motherfucker.